Love or Lust? Ten things to do on a Saturday night by Coco Helado
Figuring out what to do on a Saturday night is the easy bit. The hard part is avoiding misunderstandings about what it is you're really after. Whether it's everlasting love or burning lust, you'll want to tailor your plans accordingly. The following guidelines should help you clearly and effectively convey your true intentions.
LOVE OR LUST? TEN THINGS TO DO ON A SATURDAY NIGHT
by Coco Helado
Figuring out what to do on a Saturday night
is the easy bit. The hard part is avoiding misunderstandings about
what it is you're really after. Whether it's everlasting love or
burning lust, you'll want to tailor your plans accordingly. The
following guidelines should help you clearly and effectively
convey your true intentions.
- ASKING HER OUT
IF IT'S LOVE
Call at least four days in advance, requesting the pleasure of
her company.
IF IT'S LUST
Call her at least 20 minutes in advance, and ask, "Can I come
over?"
- DRESSING FOR THE EVENING
IF IT'S LOVE
Maximize class factor. Channel Audrey Hepburn.
IF IT'S LUST
Maximize jiggle factor. Channel Pamela Anderson.
- EATING IN
IF IT'S LOVE
Cook most the meal yourself, but invite your partner to join you
for the finishing touches, to give a sense of partnership. This
meal should convey the idea that loving domesticity can be a
feast for the senses. Choose a homey yet delicious menu, such as
roast chicken or rack of lamb. Drizzle truffle oil over mashed
potatoes, transforming this ordinary dish into a veritable bowl
of luxuriousness.
IF IT'S LUST
Prepare appetizers before your guest arrives: finger food,
nothing fancy. Keep the lighting low. The idea is that she may
nibble, but YOU are the main course.
- EATING OUT
IF IT'S LOVE
Choose a restaurant based on romantic potential: soft lighting,
somewhat quiet ambiance, a menu rooted in the Romance Languages:
French, Spanish, Italian.
IF IT'S LUST
Choose a restaurant where you can order over-rich foods—oysters,
foie gras, chocolate mousse—that spoil quickly, implying that
this is a one-time opportunity, and there's no chance of a
repeat performance.
- WHEN THE BILL ARRIVES
IF IT'S LOVE
Discreetly take it as soon as it arrives, and don't allow her to
see it. Decline her offer to split it with you. After all, her
company is payment enough.
IF IT'S LUST
Look at the bill. Then look at her. Say, "So. Are you coming
over?"
- GOING TO THE MOVIES
IF IT'S LOVE
Ask him if there's anything he'd like to see. After all, how bad
can Samurai Tomb Destroyer 4 really be?
IF IT'S LUST
Choose something boring. Sit in the back row.
- RENTING A VIDEO
IF IT'S LOVE
Go for a popular drama, comedy, or foreign film.
IF IT'S LUST
Reach for the box labeled, "Terms of Endearment." But make sure
you've switched the video inside with the adult title, "Terms of
Endowment." Once you've turned it on, feign surprise, then say,
"Well, we might as well watch this one."
- GOING TO A PARTY
IF IT'S LOVE
Tell her she's the most beautiful woman in the room. Then take
her up on the roof or into the garden to look at the stars. Kiss
her on the lips.
IF IT'S LUST
Tell her she's the hottest babe in the room. Then take her into
the bathroom. Kiss her everywhere but the lips.
- THROWING YOUR OWN PARTY
IF IT'S LOVE
Proudly introduce him to everyone as "Michael, my boyfriend."
Don't invite ex-boyfriends unless they're truly good friends
with no ulterior motives.
IF IT'S LUST
Just say, "This is Michael." Look uncomfortable. Make sure you
invited as many of your exes as you could. If it doesn't work
out with Michael, maybe you'll get lucky with one of them.
- CULTURAL EVENTS
IF IT'S LOVE
Surprise with box seats at the opera. Offer to buy her the
libretto.
IF IT'S LUST
Surprise her with seats at a strip club. Offer to buy her a lap
dance.
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