10. Flirting is an attitude: A good flirt is self-confident and
not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive, it works!
9. Start a conversation: The best opening line is saying hello.
Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state
an opinion.
8. Have fun: Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show
your vulnerability.
7. Use props: Never leave home without a prop. Props are
natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and
others will be compelled to start talking to you. Great props
include: dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a fabulous scent, a
sweatshirt with your favorite passion, interesting ties, hats, or
an interesting book or newspaper.
6. Be the host: Change your behavior from the role of guest to
host. You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather the
welcome committee.
5. Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want to
meet. Say hello!
4. Listen: You have two ears and one mouth because you should
listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your
flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard.
3. Eye contact: Make eye contact, but please look your partner
in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away.
Don’t stare – it’s a turn off.
2. Compliment: Compliment your flirting partner. The best
compliments have the element of surprise. The "flirtee" will know
that you really noticed them. Remember, your compliments must be
honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment the
best response is merely, Thank You!
1. Smile: It is contagious. It will make you so much more
approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people to you.
You will be a people magnet. Try it!